Hey You, Yes You.

Oh what I wish I had said.

Hey you, Cashier at Big W, yes you.

You know the new mum with the diagnosis of Down syndrome for her baby? Yeh her.

She doesnt want to hear about your negative encounters with people with disabilities, particularly down syndrome.

Or how you once had a conversation with a lady about how she couldn't understand why people would interact with "retards" or how they "have no future" or that they are "disgusting."

Did you think this story would make a mother feel at ease?

Did you think it would make her excited for her childs future and the bullying you so openly find appropriate.

Yes my child has down syndrome, like many other people that have varying differences, and this does NOT mean they are a burden to this world because of it.

Nor does it give people permission to say such foul and hurtful things.

People like you are a burden to this society, not people like my son, not those of us that are kind, and loving, and better people because of that extra chromosome.

You are not helping the world teach people to be inclusive and accepting with your inconsiderate and vulgar conversations.

I am a mum of a child with additional needs and you are nothing but a malicious excuse for a human, that cannot see the beauty, determination, joy, strength and will power of someone that is different to you.

Maybe im not the better person in this situation, but im just a mother desperate for the world to find and seek the beauty in each person.

To see them for who they are and all they are capable, to see that really, they are not as different as you think they are and accept them anyway.



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  1. This is an amazing blog. I hope you don't mind if I follow x

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  2. Much love to you and your beautiful baby.
    My sister just had her first child at 39 yesterday who is also DS.
    She’s just magical and I can’t wait to be part of their journey.
    Ignore the nameless coward making unsubstantiated comments as per above. Some people are just unhappy and really should divert all that negative energy to improving their own sad pathetic lives.
    Here’s to kindness and thank you for the courage of sharing your life with us 💖

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